Showing energy doesn’t mean you’re always speaking loudly and being animated. It’s an art form in itself. It’s about the way you talk, the way you use your body and the way you use your voice.
People like to communicate with someone who’s very aware of the situation.
If he’s in a happy setting, he will be more animated. He will speak a little louder than usual and he will smile more.
On the other hand, if he’s on a sad setting, he’ll know when to shut up and when to speak. He’ll know the tone of his voice and he’ll know how loud or how soft he should speak.
This is what we call “controlled energy.”
It’s about knowing how to react on a certain environment and situation.
1 – The way you act on a specific situation matters. Sometimes, these actions will be pretty obvious.
For some, they will still wonder why everything got awkward on a funeral, where they made an inappropriate joke at an inappropriate time.
So just be aware of situations you are in and act accordingly. Don’t just show energy, show the right energy.